only 26 days have passed and I already think that this year is a bad year. With my O's coming up, this year is going to be a really stressful year for most of my friends and of course myself. However, I will definitely not let the stress bring me down.
So, ON TO THE TOPIC! Ok so the past 2014 has been a pretty rough year, despite having my happiest times then. I've learned many things through 2014 and there is one that stands out among all. It is that people actually do care.
Not everyone likes to express their inner feelings, so they tend to show care through different measures. "Remember to eat your meals regularly", "don't skip your meals", "sleep early", "don't stress yourself out too much" and things like that are what people say at times when they care.
Not everyone is going to be there to listen to you or talk to you when you are upset, but do know that some of them didn't ask just because they don't want to talk about things that may hurt you. Instead, they silently worry for you, fret upon your worries and find ways to make you happy without you even realising it. Well, that's their way of showing their care towards you.
Not everyone is going to comfort you when you did something wrong. Instead, they reprimand you just because they don't want you to make the same mistake once again.
Not everyone is going to ask if you are okay when you seem tired. Instead they try to cheer you up as if they already know the reasons behind the frown.
And obviously, the people who cares are people who loves you. Be it as a friend, a sibling, a relative or even something else. They are people who think that you matter. That you are not just someone, you are someone special. Everyone is special in their own unique ways and so are you. So stop worrying about your flaws and focus on what you are. what makes you a lovely person you already are.
People who love you are going to accept who you are and people who don't accept who you are, don't love you. There are too many things in life for you to put your heart and soul in so why bother putting them in people who don't care about you.
Make right decisions so that you won't regret them later in life.
Smart choices comes with a satisfying consequence while a silly mistake comes with a bag of regrets.
Be the one who thinks and feel and not just the one who does things blindly.
"Some people feel the rain, others just get wet." a quote from Bob Marley.
There are many pathways opened in our mind that we ourselves get lost at times. How will we know what someone is truly feeling when we don't even know ourselves? Thus NEVER jump to conclusions that people don't care because sometimes they actually do despite not showing it.
Be good to people and people will be good to you. Be bad to people and people treat you bad.
What goes around comes around. If you care about others , others will too.
2015 has arrived ever so quickly, it seemed like 2014 passed in the blink of an eye. I hope to continue learning as i grow older each year. At the end of every year, I hope to come to a conclusion about different things in life just like I did last year.
Well, that's the end of this post. Remember, Pain Helps You Grow Stronger. Goodnight :)
